Head-fi is way better than reddit for discussing headphones IMO. The voodoo doesn’t bother me, I just ignore it if I need to. And the format is far more conducive to actually planning meets and discussing headphones than reddit is. People actually discuss the headphones rather than the stupid questions that constantly pop up here on reddit.
There are the people who talk about which cables to use to make the sound brighter or warmer or whatever. All sorts of odd tweaks and somewhat suspect suggestions on improving sound quality.
That stuff just doesn’t bother me. I ignore it, or politely decline the option. Some people are more… sensitive to the existence of that sort of thing.