People spend millions on art, or thousands on a bottle of wine. . . . It is hard to know what someone else’s hearing capability is. I can’t hear what others can, I can’t play golf like Tiger, play hoop like Jordan, think like Einstein, but just because I can’t, doesn’t mean they can’t either.
My suggestions to try are the following:
Move away from the wall - the corners are amplifying the bass.
Play with the toe in - I find the amount of toe in changes the intensity of certain frequencies. Note that you may not want the toe in exactly the same for each speaker due to the non-uniform room shape
Try moving the panel that is behind the chair to behind the stereo or in front of the fire place.
If these are bass ported, you can plug or partially plug the port.
I have a similar issue with certain base frequencies. Please keep us updated on what you find works best.