Bose QC ULTRA. Much like the XM3/4 in weight, shape, and size. But the pads are firmer and the ear cups are more spacious. Great recipe for enduring 5+ hours of usage

It is real. Some ANC headphones have really high cabin pressures compared to others. After long use, it’ll feel like your eardrums are being pressed on constantly. It’s good to vent the air pressure every 10-20 minutes if you’re really sensitive. I find I can go for 5 hours without feeling the pressure on my ear drums but it’s still good to introduce fresh air to my ears at least every half hour. Not that I feel uncomfy and I have do it, it’s just a good practice.